The Kitten Initiative

So the other day I was wondering what it would look like if I replaced all instances of the n word in a given hip-hop...

Fuck This Day

So you guys know Rhi died on Sunday, and as a result I got basically no sleep Sunday night. Even though there were a lot...

RIP Rhian

I just got the news that Rhian R. passed away today, so I’m publishing this instead of a Monday post. Unlike a lot of my...

Sex Toy Safety

This post brought to you in association with Adam & Eve Toys. Because of the taboo against talking about sex, especially masturbation and kink, a...

Too Big a Burden

While I was making my MLK day twitter hall of fame, I waded through a lot of Dr. King quotes. One in particular “I have...

Crazytime

If you follow me on Twitter you may have seen my weird little episode on Wednesday about my mom’s health update. She texted me that...

The Webster Fetishists

Conrad Bain, the dad from Diff’rent Strokes (who also was one of the founders of the Actor’s Federal Credit Union) has died. In honor of...

What I Wore: Rage

I know I talked about it yesterday, but I am loving The Steel Remains so incredibly hard right now. I’m half way through and I...

What I Wore: Lace Skirt Blues

After the holidays, I started listening to The Design of Everyday Things on audiobook. Initially I was worried that I wouldn’t understand the visual references,...

Buying Low

For Ben’s birthday, I bought him a small stack of books. One of them, Jenny Rosenstrach’s Dinner: A Love Story, I secretly also bought for...

Goodbye Huell

Oh Shit. Huell Howser is dead. Who the fuck is going to be enthusiastic about things for us now? Fuck I loved that giant white...

Movin’ On Up

If you checked the site between 10pm PT last night and 8am PT this morning, you may have gotten the above image with a note...