What I Wore: Hint of Blue
Sweater is from REI Blue thermal is from REI (I think) Gray dress was a gift from Ben’s mom Green Jeans from Goodwill Leather Converse...
All Your Favorite Characters Are Slaves: Review of Solo
There are going to be spoilers in this review from the very beginning, so if you don’t want Solo spoilers, please don’t read anything after...
The Dress is a Lie
Hash House A Go Go hat is Ben’s Hoodie is from Macy’s “Dress” is a 5x A shirt from Amazon T-shirt from Target Leggings from...
What I Wore: Professional Blues
Vintage Pendalton jacket is from Foxtrot Vintage in Gresham, Oregon Necklace was my great grandmothers (I think) Shirt is from Target Vest, skirt...
What I Wore: Outfit Dump
We switched servers and some of my posts were lost. Here are all the pictures of those outfits. No product run-down because that would be...
What I Wore: Sunshine Through the Shade
TW: Eating disorder and recovery talk. I was actually really melancholy the day I wore this outfit. After 20+ years of pretending I could mind...
What I Wore: Double Jointed Drowned Rat
Feet… … how do they work? Like this. Hat is from a Tibetan store in LA that I can no longer remember Scarf is from...
What I Wore: Domestic Scene With Dog and Sock
Hat is from a Tibetan store in LA that I can no longer remember Scarf is from Magpie on Hawthorne Shirt is from Target Dress...
What I Wore: Sweet Hobo of Autumn
Jacket is Nike via Crossroads Hawthorne Scarf was a gift from Ben’s Sister, Mara Hulk Shirt is from the Thrift Store Skirt is from The...
What I Wore: Dots
Lipstick is Maybelline 835 Sapphire Siren (it’s more blue than purple in person) Sunglasses from Magpie on Hawthorne Shirt from Norma Jean’s Closet in Gresham...
What I Wore: Golf Team Dad
Jacket is from the Chrome summer warehouse sale Shirt is from Goodwill Melissa McCarthy jeans are from Macy’s Lacoste shoes are from Buffalo Exchange on Hawthorne
What I Wore: City Time
Hat is from Sibling Revelry in Corvallis, Oregon Scarf is from REI Alcatraz sweater is from a street vendor in San Francisco Undershirt, leggings...
What I Wore: The Forest In My Yard
Scarf was my great grandmother’s Undershirt is from The Gap Shirt and skirt are from the thrift store Leggings are Patagonia Socks are Sock Dreams...
What I Wore: Get It?
It’s funny ’cause I’m fat. Mass Affect hoodie is from Bioware Shirt from Old Navy Melissa McCarthy jeans from Macy’s Shoes from the Chrome warehouse...
On Being a Mexican in Donald Trump’s America
Some people will say Mexicans are descended from kings and queens. That this is the reason we belong on this land. I disagree. The kings...
What I Wore: Person of Color
Sunglasses are from Red Fox Vintage on Woodstock Striped shirt is from Goodwill Fruit dress is from Mod Cloth via Buffalo Exchange on Hawthorne Leggings...
What I Wore: I’m a Farmer
Hash House a Go Go hat is Ben’s Red Banana Republic hoodie is from Crossroads on Hawthorne. Patagonia flannel is from the used section of...
What I Wore: Featuring Spencer
This is Spencer, he’s 10 years old and he spent 9ish years in a shelter because he’s shy. At some point a man adopted him,...
What I Wore: Weather Witch
Cardigan is from Target Jones New York dress was a gift from friend Carrie Blue tank is from The Gap Leggings were purchased at JC...
What I Wore: Anchovie With You
Red Banana Republic hoodie is from Crossroads on Hawthorne. Pizza Be With You shirt was a gift from Ben’s mom. White long john top...
What I Wore: Captain Vibes
I feel like this coat makes me look like a pirate captain. Hand tailored Martin Berens Tall Fashions of California wool coat is...
What I Wore: I Never Promised You a Rose Garden
Sunglasses are from 7-11 (they say Slurpee on the side). Bomber jacket and shoes are courtesy of the Chrome summer warehouse sale. Shirt is from...
Facebook Friends: Being White in America Today
Awhile ago, I asked for blog topic suggestions. I love my Facebook friends. The dumb thing is over and now it’s time for ANSWERS!! And...
What I Wore: A Good Monster
Lazy at home post-shower, pre-brunch pics. This is my favorite shirt. Sportsbra and Donatello shirt is from Target Not Your Daughter’s Jeans that I...
What I Wore: Optical Illusion Dress
Doesn’t this dress look weird in pictures? Shirt is from Target Dress is from Goodwill Socks were a gift from my sister in law, Mara...
What I Wore: Grandpa Time
Sweater and shirt are from Goodwill Pants are Melissa McCarthy brand from Macy’s Izod sneakers are from Buffalo Exchange on Hawthorne Phone is a Samsung...
What I Wore: Falling for Fall
Sweater and shirt are from Goodwill Doc Martins are from Crossroads on Hawthorne. Skirt, leggings and socks are from Target. Bag is from Chrome Lipstick...
Queer.
Content Warning: Physical abuse, mention sexual advances on a minor. The first time I had sex with my now husband, I told him roughly three...
Wherein I Nicely Explain That Tina Fey Cake Skit and Why I, A Person of Color, am Mad About It
White friends, I love you. I also love Tina Fey. However I have issues with her hilarious cake skit, and here’s what they are: 1....
Leaning In To Discomfort: Being a White Fan of Hip Hop
Awhile ago, I asked for blog topic suggestions. I love my Facebook friends. The dumb thing is over and now it’s time for ANSWERS!! And...
Facebook Friends: Pan-Latinx Arts, Call for Suggestions
I love my Facebook friends. The dumb thing is over and now it’s time for ANSWERS!! And this got really long, so I’ll be breaking...
Facebook Friends: Favorite Flower
I love my Facebook friends. The dumb thing is over and now it’s time for ANSWERS!! And this got really long, so I’ll be breaking...
Facebook Friends: Why I Remember How Many Twitter Followers You Have but Not My Mortgage Balance
I love my Facebook friends. The dumb thing is over and now it’s time for ANSWERS!! And this got really long, so I’ll be breaking...
How Do I Say This Delicately: Random POC Don’t Want Your White Kids, OK?
Despite being barren and having no nearby mom friends, I have still seen the paranoid delusional posts about suburban moms being afraid of mysterious foreign...
Make The Thing
Do you realize that you are unique? Not all that bullshit about the probability of this human and that human and whichever charming neanderthals got...
Is the Fast and the Furious Just Latinx Crack?
Friend Josh told me that there’s a rumor going around that Latinx audiences are the reason for the massive and unprecedented success of the Fast...
Mass Effect Andromeda Review
It hurts me to say this. I am disappointed in Mass Effect Andromeda. I was practically drooling when I played Dragon Age Inquisition in 2014...
Why I Am Yelling: A Brief Synopsis
Because the wolf is no longer at the gate. He closed the gate. On us. In here. With him. And you don’t seem to feel...
Grief and the Hero Complex
I am so tired. I actually took the afternoon off work to stare blankly at the computer with occasional crying. Okay, more like occasional not...
“There will be a time when we must choose between what is right and what is easy”
-Albus Dumbledore A lot of people are really excited for 2016 to be over. They think the year is the problem. I am sorry to...
You told me I would feel relieved when you died.
You were right, I do. Mom, You were abusive. And I loved you very much. There is no shame in either statement. Both are true....
Drinking Hate for Breakfast: A Liberal Welcomes President Trump
So that happened. And my timelines are filled with good, smart, strong people utterly shocked that their country hates them. That in 2016 a candidate...
How To Be A Liberal When There Is No God
I feel like I’ve been inundated with images of racist, classist victories. One scroll through my timeline and I see police in riot gear hitting...
You Will Never Be Cured
We have this narrative that all you have to do to be a Good Human is figure out how to keep your house clean, capitalize...
Dog Questions
Why is it that we have to spell every other word that has anything to do with food or exercise in this house, but the...
Oh Hi Monday. Didn’t See You There.
If you click on the Erotica Reviews link in the menu, it now leads to a completely different website, www.baconandlettuce.com. This is because, after more...
Stop Telling People to Call Their Parents.
I found this on a blog post called “How Not to Be a Garbage Human” and there’s no way I’m linking to that trash. Also...
How to be a #NastyWoman
Tell people about yourself. Specifically how great you are. Fashion don’t? More like Fashion don’t give a fuck what you shitlords think. Fuck. However you...
Just 1:38am Things
I’m listening to Ruth Bader Ginsburg’s audiobook In My Own Words and true to title, they actually do have recordings of speeches she’s given. Which...
Things I Learned on Google: “Calaveras”
We’ve already established that I am a totally crap Mexican. Therefore, I end up Googling my own cultural history more often than not and this...